Cold
Eyes:
The
Mask
of
a
High
and
Mighty
Man In
the
virtual
world,
it's
common
for
people
to
choose
their
usernames
as
their
masks.
It
amplifies
their
personality
traits
or
hides
their
true
identity.
For
boys,
nothing
screams
superiority,
aloofness,
and
maturity
than
two
English
words
that
make
up
a
high
and
cold
nickname. But
behind
the
intimidating
alias,
who
is
really
the
boy
behind
the
screen? Many
people
assume
that
men
with
high
and
mighty
usernames
are,
in
fact,
unapproachable
and
unfriendly.
These
are
the
lads
who
are
known
for
their
sharp
tongues
and
cold
eyes,
judging
everyone
in
their
sight
without
any
mercy.
But
more
often
than
not,
these
assumptions
are
far
from
the
truth. Boys
who
choose
such
a
username
usually
have
low
self-esteem
and
are
afraid
of
being
vulnerable.
They
are
uncomfortable
with
emotional
intimacy
and
tend
to
keep
people
at
arm's
length.
Using
a
cold
and
lofty
nickname
gives
them
a
sense
of
control,
and
in
some
way,
it
protects
their
fragile
ego.
They
want
to
be
viewed
as
strong
and
unbreakable,
but
nobody
really
is. Most
of
these
boys
also
have
difficulties
expressing
their
emotions
and
asking
for
help.
They
carry
the
weight
of
their
problems
on
their
shoulders
and
don't
want
to
be
a
burden
to
anyone.
Ironically,
this
makes
them
seem
more
aloof
and
intimidating
than
they
really
are. We
must
understand
that
these
boys
are
humans,
too,
with
emotions,
fears,
and
weaknesses.
They
crave
connection
and
belongingness,
just
like
any
other
person.
It's
important
to
approach
them
with
kindness
and
compassion,
and
understand
that
their
mask
might
be
hiding
a
deep
well
of
pain
and
insecurities. Next
time
you
encounter
someone
with
a
cold
and
lofty
username,
don't
judge
them
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Take
the
time
to
get
to
know
them,
break
their
walls,
and
show
them
that
they
are
not
alone.
Who
knows,
you
might
just
be
the
person
who
will
help
them
break
their
shell
and
reveal
the
warmhearted
man
inside.